{"id":6021,"date":"2012-01-08T15:39:00","date_gmt":"2012-01-08T20:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/?p=6021"},"modified":"2012-01-08T16:08:01","modified_gmt":"2012-01-08T21:08:01","slug":"a-new-tradition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/?p=6021","title":{"rendered":"A NEW TRADITION AND OUR NEW NORMAL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>every year since mike&#8217;s mom died, we have put an easter lily on the altar in her memory and then bring it to their grave, now for christmas we will put a poinsettia on the altar and then go and put it at my mom and dad&#8217;s grave&#8230; and we also put one on the altar for delia:) steph put the wreath there,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/IMAG0103-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6022\" title=\"IMAG0103-1\" src=\"http:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/IMAG0103-1.jpg\" alt=\"IMAG0103-1\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>we have found ourselves back there a few times, just to talk, this road of grief we are going down is hard and i can&#8217;t thank a special friend for being there for me and just letting me sob on her shoulder! THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!&#8221; it hurts, the pain is still too new, i know they say time heals, i need time&#8230;steph made the comment that we have never had to live on this earth without our mom, so this is new territory for us..it hurts<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>every year since mike&#8217;s mom died, we have put an easter lily on the altar in her memory and then bring it to their grave, now for christmas we will put a poinsettia on the altar and then go and put it at my mom and dad&#8217;s grave&#8230; and we also put one on the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-container-style":"default","site-container-layout":"default","site-sidebar-layout":"default","disable-article-header":"default","disable-site-header":"default","disable-site-footer":"default","disable-content-area-spacing":"default","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6021"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6021"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6021\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6027,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6021\/revisions\/6027"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6021"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6021"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mom.vandercar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6021"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}